Criston Cole walks into a suicide charge in Season 3 Episode 5 of House of the Dragon—armored, alone, knowing it's over.
Actor Fabien Frankel describes the motivation as a loss of will rather than a loss of honor. Cole is not choosing death because it's noble—he's choosing it because continuing to live has become unbearable.
The show's writers have built toward this moment across three seasons. They've watched a calculating knight dissolve into someone for whom survival no longer feels worth the cost. This is not what George R.
In Fire & Blood, Martin's source material, Criston Cole survives the Dance of the Dragons entirely. He negotiates, adapts, switches sides when necessary—and dies in his bed decades later as a wealthy, aging power broker. The television adaptation has done something sharper and more modern to him. It has collapsed the medieval tragedy of institutional decay into the psychological vocabulary of burnout.
When Cole charges to his death on screen, he is not a man destroyed by external forces. He is a man whose internal motivation has simply run dry. This matters because the show is abandoning the point Martin was making. In the novels, the Dance destroys the Targaryen dynasty through systematic institutional failure—through the grinding erosion of checks and balances. Cole survives that collapse because surviving it is his entire project.
He loses the story he was telling himself about why the struggle mattered at all.